Dating After Divorce – how to find love after a break up

Okay, you’re back to dating after divorce. It’s NOT that big a deal.

Well, maybe it is when you’re in the thick of it…

…But if you’re here, that means you’re ready to start dating again.

First of all, being divorced isn’t a big deal. More than half the population is divorced. And most of them are pretty good people.

Even dating after divorce with children ain’t no thing. Really, it’s not unless you let it be a big deal.

And, my friend, it’s ALL in how you think, the way you frame it in your head.

Here’s what I want you to think: you spent a few great years with someone you loved and it turned out that you changed and wanted different things. You learned a little on the way, and you’re a better person from the experience.

And I start with that idea because if you don’t feel good about your relationship, it will cripple you as you move forward with your life.

You can CHOOSE to think of things in a different way, and when you do, people follow your lead and think what you think.

Now… with that premise… let’s get into the first of 2 things that seem to stump the guys I talk to.

First is that you might have been out of the dating game for a while and don’t feel like you have a handle on the way things work these days.

The truth is, the ESSENTIAL things haven’t changed much in 20 years. They haven’t changed for thousands of years actually…

Women find certain things attractive in men:
Health
Wealth
Passion
A sense of humor
A guy who other women find attractive
Confidence
High status
Socially fluent

Now, not all of us have all these, half is good actually. But if you can master these, you will have incredible success dating after divorce.

The best news is that online dating allows you to get back into the dating game nice and slow, at your own pace, as you master the things on this list.

What’s going to happen is that you’ll start feeling better about yourself, gain confidence, and be more fun to be around.

A lot of the divorced guys I know who do the online dating thing get back in shape, they take their jobs more seriously, and make more money.

My guess is that once you put up a profile and see how easy it is to attract women, that you’ll find you’re a better man than ever. I’ve seen it happen over and over.

And look, if you need a kick start with this, go to my products page and get my tutorial on tips, strategies and techniques for online dating and we’ll have a blast with this!

In the next post on dating after divorce we’ll talk more about how things are in the dating world now and how you’re a lot better off than you think.

Follow my advice, and you should have no problems dating after divorce.

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