style=”line-height:120%;”>Don’t get frustrated with online dating

I’ve gotten a couple of messages from guys (who haven’t bought my products, btw) who are frustrated with online dating.

Finding women online isn’t always easy.

But it can be the best idea you ever had when it comes to finding whatever relationship you want.

So whatever you do, do NOT get discouraged when things don’t go well when you first start online dating. If you need encouragement, take a look at where you started compared to where you are now…

All the stuff you know now that you didn’t know a week, month or year ago.

Decide to do whatever you need to do in the short term to get long-term rewards. Stay with it. Quadruple your efforts. Decide that the only thing you will accept is success.

Take my word for it:

The first time you get a date with your dream girl, you’ll be damn glad you stayed with it.

In that moment, all the hours you worked to get the perfect profile … all the rejection you dealt with to get your first few dates… and all the sacrifices you made to build a system for online dating… will all be worth it.

Yes, it takes some work on your part.
If you take the easy way out…

If you don’t put the effort in up front…

If you don’t invest the energy needed to have the details just right…

If you resent honest, well meaning criticism …

And if you bail the first time the going gets tough…

There’s nothing much I or anyone else can do to help you.

But if, as my college wrestling coach used to say, if you’re willing to put 110 percent of your guts, your work, and your energy into this…

If you have the patience to get it right from the start… and pay attention to the small details that have to be right to get each and every girl you want…

If you’re willing to use all your mental and creative energy you have… give it your best shot … take responsibility for the results … take a real, honest look at what you got right and what you got wrong … and learn from your mistakes…

…There’s nothing I or anyone else can do to stop you.

Whether you’re with your girl yet or not, you’re a winner as far as I’m concerned. And pretty soon here, you’ll find yourself bathing in the just rewards of your work.

… Now, it’s time to get to work.

But what if the women on these online dating sites don’t want to date you yet? Or worse: You do your best seduction ever, the best you know to do – and you still don’t get the girl??

Look. Let me tell you something that all the gurus out there probably won’t.

It’s not until you begin applying this stuff in the online dating world that you REALLY begin to learn!

Unless and until you gut through the rejection before getting your first few women … and until you go through the humiliation of getting let down – over and over again – by women when there’s a relationship on the line … you’re still only a student.

Students pay to learn. Once you begin doing, others PAY YOU to learn.

Yep – you have to work your butt off until you get an online dating system that works– and the first few successes might NOT be worth a helluva lot.

You’ll have to make five, ten, twenty or even more combination of pictures, profiles, and emails before you get a system that allows you to date almost any woman online.

Courage – true courage –is being terrified of rejection and the unknown, and then doing what you to need to do anyway.

You can do this. I know you can.

To Your Online Dating Success,

JT
Creator of
Instant Internet Attraction and Magnetic Profiles

P.S. What’s getting in the way of your success with women you crave?

What are you afraid of?

What keeps you from sending a message to that perfect girl?

What keeps you from going for the women you REALLY want?

I think the best definition of courage I’ve ever heard is “Being scared and doing it anyway.”

So here’s what I’d like you to do today: Decide on the ONE thing between you and the success you dream crave– that single thing that scares you the most.

And then – DO IT.