Getting Girls to Chase You

Okay, today in our ongoing series on online dating advice for men I want to go over how to get a girl to chase you.

If you’ve been online dating for more than 3 days you know that you can lose these girls at the drop of the hat.

The secret is to string them along. Yes, I know that stringing GUYS along is usually what the girls do to us.

But what you need to do is turn the tables and get them chasing you. You have to be a little hard to get.

The reason this works is that women love to chase. They love the idea of having to work for a man.

She wants someone who won’t kiss her ass, bend to her will, or suck up to her.

They want you to be hard to get.

So, what you want to do is get them interested in you. Show them that you’re interested in them at first.

Then back off.

You want her interested and attracted to you so that she can enjoy chasing you. You want her to feel like she’s WON YOU when you finally cave and give her what she wants… YOU.

This whole time you are making her chase you, the conversation needs to be moving along kinda fast. Because you don’t want to get buried in her inbox.

You are going to flirt with her, be fun and playful and let her think you are the COOLEST guy she’s ever met.

The messages you send are going to be fairly short after your first one. I’d recommend only 4 or 5 sentences at most, depending on the girl.

You want to keep the banter going back and forth so that you never fall off the first page of the messages in her inbox. And you need to ask interesting questions so that she HAS TO email you back because you are so much fun and so different.

Then, when things are really heating up, you send her a killer email where you tell her the two of you should talk on the phone together.

This message is critical and you have to make it look like she is the one who asked for your number, she’s the one who wants to talk to you, and she’s the one working to get you.

Or, depending on the girl and the conversation you’re having with her, you can make asking for her number… or giving her your number flow easily in the conversation.

When you do either of those things, everything works perfectly because she is about to WIN and get your number, you’re giving her what she wants, and the whole method of getting her number just flows easily and NATURALLY in your emails.