Online Dating Emails—how to open your email to a woman in a way that makes her read it

One of the integral parts of online dating is sending messages and emails to women that you’re interested in. In fact, you’re not going to get anywhere with your dating experience if you can’t send a good email or respond well to one a girl sends you.

We’re going to cover opening your email in this post, and in the next one we’ll go over some things to put in the body of your message. All the information here, and much more, is available in my cut and paste system for sending killer emails if you want all of it at your fingertips right now.

When you start your message to her, you want to show her that you have in fact read her profile, that you wouldn’t just email anybody back, but you found her so fascinating that you had to take the time out of your busy life to sit down and write her a meaningful email.

These openers have proven the most effective in our research, and I’m going to quote right from Magnetic Profiles:

You win. You got me to reply to your message. 🙂 There were a few things I thought were attractive about you in your profile. Maybe because you remind me of me, and I have my faults, but I like me.
Okay. I only have about 15 minutes here before I have to meet my friends, but I just have to write you back quick. I’m intrigued. There are 3-4 things in your profile that really stood out. And yes, it takes at least that to get my attention. I’ll mention a few here before I go.
I just got done reading your message to me and your profile and had to send you something despite myself. : ) I’m really picky, but there are a few things in your profile that stand out.
You know, I’m super picky with this online dating thing but your profile sounds great and I just have to write you back quick.

Use these openers to your emails and you’ll grab her attention. That’s half the battle when getting a woman to respond to you. Even average looking girls get DOZENS of emails every single day from guys, so you have to make yours stand out. You can take a look at Going Covert On Your Competition to see exactly what they are sending if you’d like. I created a female profile just so I could see what guys out there are really saying to women online, and that’s a breakdown of what I found. It’s good to look at—if nothing else just to make sure you’re not making the same mistakes.

Talk soon—

JT
p.s. If you have any good openers, please leave them in the comments below!