Online dating profile examples for men that get women to send you messages
You don't have to write like this in your online dating profile to get women interested, but the best online dating profiles for men read this way.
You wanted examples of online dating profiles for men, so I thought I would be a REALLY nice guy and give you a few great ones.
Some guys think they need to have a funny online dating profile.
Not me (or you I hope). I’m not there to entertain.
I have one goal in mind and that is to…
GET WOMEN TO EMAIL ME.
That’s all I want. I just want them to get attracted and curious and email me.
The goal isn’t to entertain them. Or tell your life story Or sell yourself to them…
The best male online dating profile example will get the girl to think “This guy sounds really cool! I think I’ll email him!!!” and then have them send you a message.
This is the exact technique I use when writing profiles for my clients. And, depending on the pictures guys have up, they get between one and 4 messages a day from NEW women.
Great online dating profiles for men get women to email you.
So, with that in mind, here are some of the…
Best male online dating profile examples:
Start out like you’re friends sitting around chatting
Let’s start at the top. You want your profile to be fun and conversational. You want to look like a guy who’s just enjoying his life and would love to have a woman to enjoy it with.
You want to invite her into… and make her a part of… your life. So start out with something that makes it look like you’re already friends…
Okay, so I know you checked out my pictures and you’re back for more. Great. 
I’m going to take the dog for a walk while you find out a little more about me here. Enjoy, and shoot me a message or wink or whatever when you’re done so we can get to know each other.
That’s your intro. You keep it light, make it different and a little fun. And tell her that you want her to send you a note. Some women need permission… give it her.
Hit her hot buttons in your main profile
Next you write your main profile. This is tricky. You have to hit certain buttons here. You’re looking to show her that you’re confident, enjoying life, picky, and fun.
Here are some online dating profile examples that have been huge successes…
My parents always wanted me to be a doctor, but I knew Information Technology was my true calling. I’m way cooler than my geeky friends and way geekier than my cool friends. I tend to stand out wherever I am. I’m currently helping businesses design websites to get more customers. It’s going very, very well.
I’m very laid back, fun, and easy to get along with. I have a lot of really interesting friends who make my life all that much better. Some you probably wouldn’t talk to, and some who probably wouldn’t talk to you.
I learned to play guitar at an early age and ever since playing that first G string, I was hooked. Jazz is my favorite. There’s something soothing and deep about it that just speaks to my soul. And you get bonus points if you can sing off tune to my out of tune guitar.
I’m cocky. I’ve worked hard to achieve, learn and become who I am and that’s brought me a lot of confidence. I like the me that I am now much better than the old version of me. But don’t worry, I don’t think I’m better than you. Your amazing girl parts give you triple points from the word “go”!
We also had some things in there about what he wanted in a woman. This was an average online dating profile examples, and the first day this was up my client got 26 messages.
Tell her to send you a message at the end of your profile
(And before you read how to close your online dating profile, you should know that each guy is different. I’ve written hundreds of profiles and each one is unique. This profile matches this guy’s interests and personality… well we spice it up a little bit. And you’re different, so follow the method here without copying and pasting this profile.)
Now, at the end of your write-up you want to ask the girl to message you again. This is HUGE. We have seen responses double with just this one technique. Here is an example you can adapt for your online dating profile.
If you think we’d get along, send me a short message, I’d be happy to hear from you. Who knows, it could be the start of something amazing!
There you go, that’s a pretty good profile. It consistently got between 1 and 4 messages from NEW women every day for over 2 months before enough women saw it that it got stale. But in that 2 months one guy went out with 28 different woman. (Most guys only want one woman though.)
I have an entire eBook on writing a profile that gets women to email you. It includes hitting her attraction triggers, the best headlines, and what you have to have for pictures. You might want to get my book on online dating profile writing.
Go here for online dating headline ideas.
I just finished a second post on online dating profile examples or this one on how to begin your profile.
Also, I found a good post on writing your profile here.
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where you tell the guy to tell the girl to send a message would work on me. adn the part where he writes kinda flowery is good. most guys try to be tough, it doesn’t work for me and my girlfriends.
WOW! I don’t get many women writing emails or leaving comments, Emily. Glad you agree with me here, especially on the “flowery talk”. Some guys think it’s lame, but as you said… it works! and thanks for not ripping into me for giving this stuff away to guys.
does that work on all girls?
No, but most. I’m not exactly who it doesn’t work on since they don’t email us. But it does work with attractive women in all kinds of jobs and ages. Though in the over 60 age group we don’t have enough data yet. But anyone under 60 it gets guys more responses. We are finding that having a good picture is now more important than ever though.
I just added online-dating-mastery.com to my feed reader, great stuff. Can not get enough!
Glad you like it, Adam. And thanks to everyone who has been sending personal emails to me and telling me of your success. Love to hear it!! JT
Thanks for the advice, I’ll try this out and let you know what happens!
Awesome Tom. I look forward to hearing how it goes!
“Your amazing girl parts give you triple points from the word “go”!”
Doesn’t that turn women off, Or am I missing something?
Hey William,
You’re right this is kinda a risky line to put in there. if the rest of your profile has this sort of fun, playful vibe to it, you’d be okay. but you do run the risk as coming off as creepy or as someone who just doesn’t get it if it’s not congruent with the rest of your profile. good point. JT